Pillow Talk

I sat in church today with Kylee, in a random Oak Ridge ward watching Cam and as we were partially singing the opening hymn, Kylee decided I needed to make a list of what I really want in a future husband. I love love, I love thinking about my future. Maybe I know that amazing man that I'll end up marrying, and maybe he's still out there waiting to meet me. It's a good idea to know what I want though.

First, I want them to be able to talk to me. In a car, in a room, alone, in groups... I want to be able to always have a conversation ready. No awkwardness searching for something to say or repeating the same routine conversation. I want meaningful conversation.

I want someone with a testimony of the church, that glows from them in their actions and their words. Someone who will never be ashamed to pray before meals and bed times, read their scriptures, not be judgmental, really live the gospel... a man who sings the church hymns and ponders during the sacrament.

Someone who can be silly!!!

I want them to treat their moms right.

I want them to have a good family relationship and love mine just as much as I do.

I want someone who loves me and makes me feel adored. Who compliments me, holds me, comforts me and just makes me have a good time.

A sense of humor has always always been important to me.

I want someone who is hard-working.

Someone who sets goals.

Someone who makes plans.

Someone who is open-minded and optimistic.

A return missionary.

Someone who loves kids!

I learned this concept in church from one of the many sundays in the single's ward that focuses on marriage... you list all these traits of the person you want to find, well... do you have these traits??

I'm looking for this amazing man to sweep me off my feet one day, so what I really need to do, is accomplish this list for myself. I guess I'll be kept busy for a while then, huh?